So a while back I took a look through the blogs I read regularly and realized I have quite a few blogs I read that talk about a struggle with infertility.  I don’t know how that ended up that way,  but I figured I maybe had something to learn.  I clearly know nothing about the subject.  In fact, the more I read the more I started to just feel overall BAD about the hurts and struggles I’ve had coping with my unplanned pregnancies.  For a few days I considered taking down or re-writing all the stories about my children to somehow make them less hurtful for those struggling to concieve.   The I realized that wasen’t the answer either.  I can’t change who I am or how very different my struggles have been from those of somone dealing with infirtility.  But as someone who regularly and with gusto manages to put my foot in my mouth, I could make an effort to learn what kinds of things I could do to offer support. So I asked the annoyed army wife if she would consider writing me a guest post about what the ‘right’ things to say are to someone struggling to concieve.  And she did!  I am very grateful for her insight and willingness to share some of what helps and hurts her in her journey.  So check it out!  And when you’re done, click on over to read more of the annoyed army wife.  She’s not always annoyed, but she is hilarious and awesome!  __________________________________________________________________  What I Want To Hear… Or how to support a friend struggling with…