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Contest Series: Why Can’t We All Just Get Along – Guest Blogger Taingamala!

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This blog series is called

Why Can’t We All Just Get Along

What
that means, is that sometimes we tend to turn life into a big loser
contest, where we figure we have it harder than everyone else. 
Especially on Military forums and support groups.  We judge the
experiences of different branches, different bases, different families,
and we argue over who has it worse.

Let’s not anymore, okay?

So
in this series, I have some amazing guest bloggers who have written me
what it’s like to walk a mile in their shoes.  The good and the bad. 
Because all our struggles and victories may be different, but that
doesn’t make them any less valid.

And for my readers who are not military, it’s a chance to see how unique each military family is and what their day to day life is like!  

Before
each blogger, I am going to take a moment to answer a question from you
guys about what it’s like to be a Canadian military spouse.  And the
best part is, commenting and asking a question enters you into a draw
for Canadian Maple Syrup candies! When the series is all done, I will
use random.org to pick one of our question-askers as the winner of the candies :).

A Canadian Contest

So today’s question comes from Lauren Cecora (Lauren, please message me your email so I can contact you if you win), she asked 

How different are the uniforms?

Not a whole lot, I don’t think.  Most soldiers (and some sailors and airman day to day) wear Cadpat.  That’s the name of the Canadian Disruptive Pattern.  Uniforms look like this:

Unless of course you are headed to the desert.  In which case, it looks like that except tan. 

Berets (the hat) change colour according to your job.  Most army is dark green.  Airborne is maroon.  Armoured like Dh up there is black, so is the navy.  Military Police are red.  Airforce wear blue.  Etc.  The badge on their beret shows which unit they are with.

A member of the Airforce working on a flight crew wear a blue flightsuit
(jumpsuit coveralls) and a member of the Navy wears black pants with a
blue shirt, but I honestly can’t say I know much about that.  Maybe I’ll have to find a Canadian Airforce or Navy spouse for that question :).

Dress uniforms also
vary very slightly depending on your branch, but look VERY similar accross the board.  The army’s are a dark dary (I insist it just looks black) green, and look like this, with obviously different patches and bling depending on the soldiers unit, rank and deployments.

One
thing I will point out that’s different about Canadian dress uniforms is the medals. 
Canadian receive medals/ribbons for deployments and Service
Commendations and very little else.  There are no medals or ribbons for Courses, Exercises, etc.  Deployment medals are based on where you
go, there is only one medal for each location.  For example, Dh
has 3 deployments, 2 to Kandahar and 1 to Kabul.  But he only has 2
medals because he went to the same place twice.  On his last tour,
during the medal ceremony they gave him a camera to take pictures
because he already had the medal!.  So you don’t see quite as much
‘bling’ on a Canadian soldier than you would on an American.

And
what I see most frequently as a BIG difference – Canadian soldiers
almost never wear their uniform outside of work
.  I mean, if they stop
at the store on the way home, or go our for lunch maybe, but they are
only permitted to wear their cadpat or ‘Combats’ to and from work.  They are not allowed to just wear it when they want. Same goes for their Dress Uniform or DEU’s. 
They can wear it to military functions but they need permission to wear
it anywhere else, like a wedding or funeral.  I always found it funny
when you watch ‘the Price is Right’, there are always soldiers in uniform!  That just doesn’t happen here. 


Do you have a question about life as a Canadian Military Spouse? Check out the facebook
page (I know it’s called Worth Missing while I await my blog
transformation by Utterly Chaotic, but it’s me, I promise) and then
leave a comment here with a question (and don’t forget an email address
so I can contact you)!


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So today we get to hear from Jane over at Taingamala!  She’s sharing a look into her life as an American Army family! (Who lives in Hawaii!!  How amazing is that!)

I’m Jane, an Army wife who blogs over at Taingamala.
Taingamala is a made up word my husband and I use with each other. Like
the word Aloha, it can mean many different things like, I love you and I
miss you. I write about our lives as newlyweds, being a military
couple, making Army housing into a home, crafts, recipes and more.
What’s
it like to be an Army wife? I get that question a lot and I suspect the
answer is very different for different families. For the most part, my
life is just what I thought it would always be. I married a smart, kind
man who adores me. We have a lovely starter home. Two dogs. He brings
home the bacon, and I take care of the house. Occasionally, he goes on
“business trips”. They just tend to be longer than my non-military
friend’s husbands.
The
Army has for the most part, been good to us. We live in Hawaii which
has always been a dream of mine. You really can’t get much better than
that. We chose to live on post in a charming house build in the 1920’s.
While, I enjoy getting off post and submerging myself in the local
culture, on post is my little security bubble. I feel safe. Like many
neighborhoods you have to drive through security to get to our home.
Only, difference is our security are trained soldiers. If I wanted to, I would never need to
leave post. We have pools, a movie theater, restaurants/bars, a bowling
alley, gas station, the PX (Army’s version of Target), the Commissary
(Army grocery store), the Class 6 (the most important store, the Army
liquor store), a furniture store, a thrift shop, a few other stores in
the “mall”, a hotel, a dog park, an equestrian center (I dream of
needing to use this) and our own mini hospital. Everything you could
ever need are all within the guarded, barbed wire walls of Schofield
Barracks.
That
being said, I love getting off post. I love shopping at the local
grocery store and wondering what this mystery fruit is I’ve never seen
before. I love meeting people from Hawaii. Trying local cuisine. And
most importantly, being a beach bum. I know we won’t be here forever and
I want to experience what living in Hawaii is really like.
I said the Army had been good to us, for the most part.
While there are things I love about the Army and our post, there are
certainly things I’m not so fond of either. When Daniel is home, we have
a pretty set schedule. He is usually home somewhere in the early
afternoon. There aren’t many days he works past five. But, when he isn’t
home, it means he is gone for a long, long time. 12-15 month
deployments are hard. Recently, the Army went down to 9 month
deployments. But, that isn’t true for everyone, and Daniel is one of
those people it isn’t true for. I would be surprised if any military
family said that deployments weren’t the worst part of military life.
The rest of it almost makes up for it, but not quite.
I see the Army being a part of our lives for the long haul. We are both
new to being a military couple and have a lot to learn about making life
and marriage work from one duty station to the next. But, so far we
have gotten through what military life has thrown at us and I’m looking
forward to all our new adventures.
Thanks Jane!  So everyone, go check out Jane over where she writes at Taingamala!
If you have questions for Jane about American Army family life, head on over to her Twitter!
Most importantly, leave her a supportive comment right here, because she is an absolutely amazing American Army wife!

And don’t forget a question for the contest too!

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4 COMMENTS

  1. Andrea Ward | 29th Aug 12

    I had no clue there was so much "on post". You really do have one of everything!

  2. Julie | 29th Aug 12

    I don't think American soldiers are supposed to wear uniforms in public, but they do anyway. My husband usually comes home right away to change unless he is stopping at Walgreens on the way home. In college, I told some guys that they are just wearing their uniform to pick up chicks and they agreed. Weird.

  3. The New Normal | 30th Aug 12

    Same for what Julie said, my husband usually changes out of uniform as soon as he gets home. We aren't in an area with a lot of military so he feels a bit out of place in uniform as times! Love Jane's blog and so jealous of her location!

  4. Jane | 31st Aug 12

    Thanks for having me! I'm loving reading this series and learning more about our military brothers/sisters to the north!

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